I’m a 50-year-old married bisexual American man living in Europe with my wife and kids. The “bi” part of me is still ...

Dear Readers: We’re rerunning some very early columns while I recover from shoulder surgery. This column is from February 1999 — the “Hey, Faggot” days — and doesn’t appear in the online archives. HEY ...

There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I'm a 29-year-old gay man just shy of five years sober. I've had to do a lot of work on myself in recovery to ...

I’m trying to date again after back-to-back negative relationship experiences. Experiences that have made me question my own judgment and ability to set good boundaries. My friends and therapist all ...

My boyfriend of five years had a one-night stand with a much younger woman. In some ways, it’s a good thing — we’re having conversations we should have had a long time ago, he’s seeing a therapist to ...

My background: I’m a gay man who recently came out to my friends, mostly because I met someone with whom I wanted to pursue a relationship. I had never experienced this feeling before. After much ...